Reads as plaid. Until they see the rainbow.
From across a room it's an ordinary grey-and-tan menswear check. The rainbow stripe only resolves when someone is close enough for it to matter.
Best seller
- Oversized 72″×28″
- Rainbow in classic plaid
- Warm & soft
- Discreet packaging
(1,336 reviews)
Our #1 best-selling Pride scarf
Oversized and warm, subtle enough for work, unmistakable to the one person who's looking.
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Features
- Oversized 72″ × 28″ — wears as a scarf, wrap or shawl
- Rainbow stripe woven into classic grey-and-tan plaid
- Premium soft-touch cotton blend
- Holds colour and shape through 100+ washes
- Ships in discreet, unbranded packaging
Size & fit
| Length | 72 in / 183 cm |
|---|---|
| Width | 28 in / 71 cm |
| Weight | Mid-weight, holds a fold |
| Wears as | Scarf, wrap or shawl |
| Sizing | One size |
Materials & care
Material: Premium Soft-Touch Cotton Blend
Cold machine wash on a gentle cycle, or hand wash, then hang to dry. Do not tumble dry.
30-day money-back guarantee
Wear it for up to 30 days. If the fabric, the size or the look is not right, email us and we refund you in full. That is the whole policy.
Shipping
Every order ships with tracking. Shipping is free on Buy 2 Get 1 Free and Buy 3 Get 2 Free; for a single scarf it's calculated at checkout.
Packaging is discreet — nothing on the outside says what's inside or who it's from.
4.9★Average rating
1,336Reviews
30-dayMoney-back guarantee
Real customers, real moments
Photos from people who wear it.
Made to be worn every day
Bigger than you're picturing.
72 by 28 inches. Double-loop it over a winter coat, drape it open over a blazer, or pull it across your shoulders indoors.
Warm enough for real winters.
A premium soft-touch cotton blend that holds its colour and shape through 100+ washes, and wears through rain, snow and wind without going limp.
Special Pride Scarf
Why ours wins, feature by feature
Subtle by design
The rainbow is an accent stripe woven into classic plaid, not the whole scarf. Professional enough for the office, unmistakable to the one person who's looking.
Oversized 72″ × 28″
Long enough to double-loop, wide enough to wear as a wrap or shawl. One size, so there's no sizing decision to get wrong.
Soft-touch cotton blend
Premium cotton blend, soft against the neck. Being straight with you: a small number of reviewers find it slightly textured rather than silky-soft — the 30-day guarantee covers that.
Discreet packaging
Nothing on the outside of the parcel says what's inside or who it's from. That matters to a lot of our customers, and we take it seriously.
Wear it for 30 days. If it's not you, send it back.
Put it on, wear it to work, wear it to the shops. If the fabric isn't what you hoped or the size isn't right, email us inside 30 days and we refund you in full. You're risking a scarf, not a decision.
Say it without saying a word.
You don't have to start a conversation, make a speech, or out yourself as anything. You just walk into the room having already said it.
For the person scanning the room.
Somewhere in your week is someone who spends every day quietly looking for a safe face. This is how they find one — at work, at the counter, on the train home.
Customer reviews
4.9
★★★★★
1,336 reviews
The scarf is cozy and gets compliments wherever I go. One friend wished she had one. I bought three more as gifts.
Audrey P. VerifiedI love it! It's soft, durable, and warm! And I love the design and colors!
Jason W. VerifiedMore than pleased with the quality, length, colors, and warmth. Can't wait to wear it and show my 80 year old pride.
Richard D. A
The scarf is cozy and gets compliments wherever I go. One friend wished she had one. I bought three more as gifts.
J
Love the scarves. Purchased for myself and friends. Here it is on my bestie Jenn.
V
Love is Love! In support for those I Love!
J
This scarf is so soft and cozy! I don't want to take it off. When I'm wearing it, I get so many compliments!
R
I love how it looks, I love what it stands for and I’ve already gotten comments!!!
J
I love it! It’s soft, durable, and warm! And I love the design and colors!
R
More than pleased with the quality of, length, colors, and warmth. Can’t wait to wear it and show my 80 year old pride
J
Can't wait for colder temps to wear it
F
I love this scarf so much. It is beautiful and distinctive! I love that is extra-wide! It is the very best!
S
Bought them for my wife and I. We love them!!!
J
When I wear ot people ask me where I got it. It's very warm and comfortable.
M
I wear it everyday, gifted the other. Lovely item, wish it was plastic free, but I use so little plastic in my life, I forgave myself in the pursuit of supporting our community.
L
I am so happy with the scarfs. I purchased two as Christmas gifts and one for myself.
The scarf is so soft and it looks amazing.
Thank you
Happy Canadian
J
Amsterdam 2024
J
First day wearing the scarf I had 3 people give me compliments. Love it!
J
Feel like reppin’ now and so many compliments.
H
I ordered this on Aug. 14 th for my grandsons 30 th BDay. I did not get it until Sept. 7 th. I almost canceled my order over weird tracking and having to wait so long. But now I’m glad I didn’t. It was worth the wait . The material has weight to it and it’s soft and beautiful. Just know it takes along time to get here.
R
I love the scarf just as a scarf. It's long and wide, warm, beautiful, but especially that it shows me as an ally. I've been wanting something that symbolizes that for quite some time. Thank you for making the scarf available.
p
I’m loving the scarf. Way oversized and soft. Perfect actually.
And the customer service is 5 stars.
Thanks so much Peter!
J
Super warm. Soft and attractive. Much bigger than expected but it works that much better. Would recommend as a gift too.
Z
Awesome purchase, soft, warm, stylish. Would not hesitate to recommend a purchase!
J
I bought my scarf a few years ago now and being in Michigan, it comes in very handy. I like it so much I bought one for a friend in Idaho. The pictures are both me, in the coat was two years ago the other is this fall, before it gets too cold and just a scarf is enough. Every time I wear the scarf people compliment me how nice it looks, and where did I get it? I tell them at IsupportLGBT.com
Please feel free to use this in your web site, as I am a happy customer/supporter.
Just Jeff
Great photo Jeff! Thanks for sharing and getting another one for a friend!
J
This scarf is perfect! It's super long, warm and matches every coat I own. Also, it supports LGBT causes. Love love love it all!
Looks great on you Jessica!
E
I wasn't given a tracking # to make sure it was coming, and had to reach out, but it had arrived. I am very happy with the product though.
C
I like the scarf very much, and it really keeps my neck warm!
Questions people actually ask
Is it itchy?
For the large majority, no — the soft-touch cotton blend is gentle against bare skin. We would rather tell you the truth than have you find out: a small handful of reviews describe it as slightly textured rather than silky-soft. If your neck is sensitive and it's not right for you, send it back inside 30 days.
Is it really as big as people say?
Yes. 72 by 28 inches. It's the single most common surprise in the reviews, and almost always a happy one — people find they can wear it as a wrap or a shawl, not just a scarf. If you specifically want a thin, narrow office scarf, this is not that.
Will it be too loud for a conservative workplace?
This is the reason the design is what it is. The base is a classic grey-and-tan menswear check that passes as an ordinary winter scarf. The rainbow is an accent stripe, not the whole scarf. It's visible to anyone who looks — and invisible as a statement to anyone who isn't looking for one.
How do I wash it?
Cold machine wash on a gentle cycle, or hand wash, then hang to dry. Do not tumble dry. The blend is made to hold its colour through 100+ washes without bleeding into the pale check.
I want to buy these as gifts. What's the best way?
Pick a bundle. Buy 2 Get 1 Free is three scarves and Buy 3 Get 2 Free is five; the per-scarf price for each is shown in the quantity selector on this page. Both ship free, and every order includes a free Safe With Me Pride Pin ($19.99 value).
Is the packaging discreet?
Yes. Nothing on the outside of the parcel identifies what's inside or who it's from. This matters to a lot of our customers and we take it seriously.
What if I don't like it?
Wear it for up to 30 days. If the fabric, the size or the look is not right, email us and we refund you in full. That's the whole policy.